A Very Special Coming of Age:
The Fifteen-Year Reunion Episode

February 18, 2004


Walking home one Friday morning after a discrete math exam, I heard a “now there’s a sight I haven’t seen in a while,” seemingly vectored at me.  I look up to see Steve, my flim/theatre director friend that I haven’t seen since I saw him outside of the Boro Bar last Homecoming.  We sat around the whole of freshman year planning ideas for zombie movies and slasher flicks, daydreaming of the days when we could afford digital equipment.

            “Likewise,” I tell him.  We’ve lost touch since sophomore year, though there was no real reason for it. Nonetheless, we still kept a good rapport and talked to each other once in a while via instant messenger.  I looked him up on the Internet Movie Database a while back, just from morbid curiosity.  He’s made two films in the last five months, which isn’t surprising with his fare.  He was telling me that he was going to be in town for a few months, making his new film.

He asked me if I was still in karate.  We used to have battles in the dorms, he with his katana, and me with the sai. I told him I was, and he was intrigued by this.  He told me he was trying something new, a martial arts movie a la Kung-Fu Theatre.  He could make cheesy horror until the end of time, but he wanted to diversify, and there’s already too much bottom-shelf science-fiction in the world, he’d just get lost in the crowd.

Nonetheless, he asked me for my help.

            I don’t know why he needed me.  He had some martial arts experience, having studied some kung fu and a year of kendo. He’s done most of his own fight choreography in the past, but his request made sense.  He found a handful of quality actors, ones that weren’t prima donnas or “people of weight,” as Mike’s bitchy ex-girlfriend would call them, feigning tact.  Although they were in good physical shape, they required training well beyond fight choreography.  They needed a crash course, and everyone training actors charged outrageous rates, or were complete idiots.  Just because you sell video tapes out of a magazine doesn’t mean you can fight -- it just means you can reach out to people with low self-esteem, and then gouge forty bucks out from them.  He didn’t want to have his people watch how good somebody else was, he needed quality and he didn’t have lots of time.  It wasn’t going to be an easy task, but spring break was coming up, and I told him I would make his people my project.  Call it a favor.  Maybe he can repay me someday, produce something I write and maybe send some residual checks my way.  I could always go for some random, extra income.

            Once spring break rolled around, I called up the Goshin-Jutsu Death Squad, and we headed to our secret underground lair, the disused basement of Dearborn Hall.  Steve managed to assemble a really descent crew.  They all listened, which doesn’t seem like a lot to ask, but it really is.  They all wanted to learn, and learn they did.

All were new faces, save one.  I didn’t recognize her at first -- she looked so different without her large, damaged hair. She’d aged since I saw her last, though the years had been quite kind to her.  It must have been rude, not saying anything to her -- treating her like a stranger -- how could I?  Not to her...especially her!  This wasn’t anyone we were talking about. This... this... this was Michelle.

See, in 1989, right when the then-fledging Fox network was trying to get off the ground, I starred in one of their many low-budget sitcoms. It was called Coming of Age.  We used the Damn Yankees song as our opening theme, because they were King Shit at the time. Coming of Age was kind of like Blossom, but only with second-rate plots -- I swear to God we got the Degrassi Junior High runoff -- and it had low production values that gave it a campy, cheesy My Two Dads ambiance.

Michelle played Annie Parker, a down-to-earth high school girl who lived with her overprotective divorced mother in her Chicago high-rise apartment.  I played the role of Francisco “Frankie” Bubbazanetti, their fun lovin’, hard drinkin’, habitually unemployed wacky neighbor.  Yeah, that was a real stretch for me to take on that role, and I always felt that it reflected my diversity as an actor.

The scripts were fairly algorithmic.  I would get a new job, and come over and announce it to the neighbors, make a few smart remarks, then leave.  Annie’s mom would then shake her head, go on about how much she hates me, and then engages in a conversation with Annie that would set up the central dilemma, typically attracting boys or trying to fit in, two things that Annie never did well.  She spent the episode wallowing about in doubt and self-pity, afraid of being berated by her domineering mother. She then goes next door to see down-to-earth Frankie, the only person in whom she can confide.  I’d then cheer her up with my kooky antics, then give her valuable, though comical advice, which would lead her to her goals, in a roundabout way. However, there would also be a strange twist of fate that would cause me to lose my job, returning us to the status quo for next week.  It wasn’t much, but in the early days of the Fox network experimentation was key, and it was quite possible for a chinsy show like mine to claw its way up to become the next Charles in Charge.

The original order was for a half-season of thirteen episodes, because Fox was in need of a mid-season replacement. After the initial contractual obligation, Fox decided not to renew us.  Although none of us thought much of the show, we were all saddened by its cancellation.  That role was the best acting job I ever had.  You might laugh, but you’ve never stood in line for three hours to apply for a day’s work in a commercial. I left show business shortly after that. Michelle and I wrote and called each other frequently, but time and distance took its toll.  Due to the show’s short run, syndication was impractical, and I’ve yet to see a residual check.  All I was left with was a story that I’d never own up to and happy memories of time spent with Michelle.

            After about four hours of instruction, we decided to call it a day.  They accomplished a lot, be we need to work harder for the technique to look crisp.  That’s all right though.  I have all week.  Steve, Michelle and the rest were about to all go there separate ways before we informed them about the eating component to martial training.

            You just don’t work out and go home, that’s silliness.  The default after-karate eatery is Valerio’s, a local chain of quaint Italian restaurants.  However, Steve’s people already ate there once today, for lunch.  We eventually decided on Ocean Buffet, the relatively new Chinese restaurant.  It seemed appropriate because you can get copious amounts of high-quality food in a clean atmosphere.  Clean is very important in Chinese restaurants.  Not to mention we were talking about chopsticks as weapons not a half-hour earlier.  We had to get some to demonstrate for Steve, since he found the idea to be novel and wanted to work it into his film.

Most of the female persuasion is appalled by my grotesque eating habits.  Not Michelle.  She was quite accustomed to this, amused by it, comforted by it.  It’s good to know there are constants in the universe.  A popular flaw with humanity is that when you don’t see someone for a while, you expect them to be the same person they were back then.  It’s impossible.  People change with time.  Old cells die, and are removed by the body and replaced by new cells.  Whoever I was back then, is gone, literally shitted away years ago.  But somehow, despite physiological and mental changes, something remains.  Some things cannot be changed, and that’s what leads people to the erroneous conclusion that if these little things stay, other traits do as well.  I knew her well enough to know that she didn’t mind that I paid exactly as much attention to food as I did to her.  In fact, exactly as much, eating with my right hand, and playing with her hair with the left.  For the record, she wasn’t any better, now or ever, eating with her left hand and wrapping her right arm around me, just like old times.

            “Man, the food is great here!”  comments Michelle.

            “Yeah, the service is great too,” I tell her.

            I pick up the little bell sitting on the table, and ring it daintily.  Instantly, the chef, going way out of his way, kicks the kitchen door open to serve us fresh, hot food.  The cook happened to be none other than veteran character actor Bolo Yeung, dressed head-to-toe in a suit of bloody rabbit skins, making him look like a Chinese caveman.  He holds a wok load of piping hot General Tso’s Chicken between his forearms.  He leers over me, almost enjoying the pain, as the hot wok slowly burns the image of a tiger onto one of his forearms, and a dragon onto the other.

            “Bah!”  shouts Bolo as he dumps the chicken on to my plate. I took a bite, and then Michelle kept nudging me to get my attention.

“They’re playing our song Ryan...”

We all fell silent for a second, to hear “Coming of Age,” by Damn Yankees over the Muzak.  I turn to her and speak.

            “Aww... your right Michelle...”

            “Ok, why on Earth would this be your song?”  inquired Mike Zielinski.

“Who is this person?”  asks a puzzled, confused, and disturbed Joe Johnson.

“Yeah Coons, are you holdin’ out on us again?”  asked Sensei Otero.

“It was out theme so--” Michelle tried to explain, but before she had a chance to finish, I stuffed an entire eggroll into her mouth to keep her quiet.  Mike laughed.  Joe buried his head in the crook of his elbow, and rocked himself with laughter.  Sensei just shook his head.  We ate, and joked, and lost track of the time, until the manager came.

“You leave now! You be here four hour! We make no money! You go!”  he screamed.

“Hey, the sign said all you can eat, $7.95... and I’m still eating...” I explain, with a smile.  One of my goals in life was to get kick out of a Chinese restaurant for eating too much, and now I have my wish.  Now I just have to get into a swordfight, and then backflip onto a table and go “Ha-ha!”, own a car just like KITT from Knight Rider, and to eat a whole goddamn chicken in one sitting.  Then my life will be complete. The manager stopped me from pleading my case.

“It ten!  We close!  You leave, or we call police!”  he shouts, as we waddle to the door, filled to the gills.  After a few minutes of standing around in the parking lot, figuring out what we wanted to do, Michelle and I decide to break from the group, and go back to my dorm room.  I may have been ditching my friends, but I’d been too long since I’ve seen Michelle. Besides, I can always play Dynasty Warriors 3 in Joe’s basement some other time.

Michelle and I spent the rest of the evening sprawled out on my improvised king-size bed, made from the dual twin beds that came with my dorm room.  There we lay, clad only in our undergarments, as a vain attempt to escape the humidity of late spring as it grows into a muggy summer.  Michelle laid her head down on my bare chest, listening to my heart, running her fingers through my wooly chest hair because... y’know... I don’t know why the hell she did that.  She was the only one. We talked softly in the darkness until the sun rose.

            Well, except for right now.  There’s ten minutes of pause in every conversation.  We enjoyed the silence, without Depeche Mode telling us to do so, even though they were in the stereo across the room.

            “Hey Michelle?”

            “Yeah Ryan?”

            “When you woke up today, did you think your day was goin’ to end like this?”

She chuckles.

“There’s a lot of things that I never could have imagined about today.”

“Oh?”  I ask, even though it’s not much of a question.

“I dunno.  I never could’ve imagined you as being a mathematician.”  she tells me.

“I couldn’t picture myself living in LA.”  I reply confusing her.  I elaborate.  “I couldn’t find meaningful work.”

“What-ever...” she tells me in her annoying west-coast tone, before continuing.  “How can you even say something like that? You were on Miami Vice!”

“Michelle, I played a corpse on Miami Vice.”

“I know!  You were on Miami Vice.’

“I laid on the floor, covered in a bloody sheet.  No one saw my face.”

I was never on Miami Vice...”

“I was just a nobody with a SAG card, and though that’s what a lot of people want to be, I didn’t want to spend my life as a make-believe corpse.  I mean, look at Philip Michael Thomas.  No one gives a fuck about Philip Michael Thomas... and he was one-a the fuckin’ stars of Miami Vice!

Michelle tried to hide the fact she was bothered by what I said, and almost got away with it.  She made her living off of acting, and could hide her feelings from me.  We spent too much time together, both on the set of my bachelor apartment, and in my real bachelor apartment for that to work.  The set was far nicer, even though it only had three walls and no roof.  She always knew Frankie Bubbazanetti was make-believe, but now she had to come to terms that the Ryan Coons she knew is a fantasy as well.

Tension filled the room.  Tension and silence.

            “Blargh-doo-wah-glarg-so-gwa-gwa-gwa gwa...” said her colon.

“I can’t believe I spent four hours at a China buffet either,” she says.

We chuckled.

“Wait, I thought Ocean Buffet was only open until 9:00?”  I ask.

            “No... the manager threw us out at ten,” she states.

This is when I realized it was a dream.  It’s funny though, because I should have caught on earlier.  After all, I was never a sitcom actor.  Also, I was twenty-three in 1989, and twenty-three in 2004.  The show aired in ’89, a year before the band Damn Yankees released our theme song on their self-titled album. Though I’ve kicked the idea around, I never actively pursued becoming a mathematician.  And the part with Bolo, I guess that was pretty weird too.  But the only thing I had telling me that it was a dream was that the Chinese restaurant had the wrong hours.

What does this say about the author?

I looked at her, and she looks bad at me with a sad concern.  She knows I realized the truth.  Though we were angry a minute ago, it doesn’t matter.  We held each other tight, because we both knew that she, her films, and her world would soon cease to exist.  All we had was each other, and the joy, the love, and the memory thereof.

Since I eventually woke, we don’t even have that now.


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